Character traits and traitors



"You are wrong, and I am right!"

Justi is ready for the universe and the people in it to do her wrong. And when they do, she will punish them for it.

But if we know Justi is patiently waiting for someone to step out of line, when they do, we can give ourselves space to do right rather than be right.


"The squeaky wheel gets the grease."

Tanny files her complaint and then pats herself on the back for a job well done. But really she has only added to the problem.


But what if instead of stopping at identifying the problem, she started with the solution before the others even saw it? Then Tanny might be getting the right kind of attention.


"Forgiveness is a sucker's game!"

Gratula has a great memory for the wrongs committed against her. But the only person this laundry list is hurting is her.

Well Gratula has taken a great first step in letting go: identifying what is causing her pain. The next step? Forgiveness. You can do it, Gratula!